Discussing your problem in an attempt to search for solutions is not complaining but talking about pain and discomfort will only bring you more of the same and encourage those around you to look for exits. “Self-pity is an acid which eats holes in happiness”- Earl Nightingale.
It simply makes no sense to get upset about things over which you have no control and which have no significant impact on your life. For example, you hear the horn of a car passing by and you start complaining about the loudness of the car. How did that affect your life? Or is there anything you can do to stop the loudness of the car horn?
Your success starts with you and it grows to a higher level as a result of your associations and relationships. Zig Ziglar said and I quote “You can get everything in life you want if you will just help enough other people get what they want”.
When you develop the habit of thinking about others instead of you all the time, you will automatically attract others to you in return. Self-centred people are never satisfied but you get satisfied when you help others achieve their goal.
Your day goes the way the corners of your mouth turn. Your mouth is the turning point of whatever you will experience in life. The question How Are You? may seem very small but we must endeavor to answer this question at least a minimum of 10 times in a day and up to 50 times if we can.
Your response to this question tells a lot about you and your attitude. And your response can change your attitude. I will like to group the response to this question into three different categories.
We don’t know how powerful we are until we start to put our will into action. Your will is a force of deliverance from any issues of life. It is a potent heaven-invested force inside every mortal being. It can determine your habit because what you want is your desire but what you will is your decision.
Your desire can be dislodged, but your decision can’t because it is stronger than your desire. Your desire is your wish whereas your decision is your choice. It is your will that determines your way, and until you will you don’t win.
There is something you need to drop or it will drop you. There is something you need to disappoint today or it will disappoint you tomorrow. Before you are abandoned, you need to abandon that secret negative act now.
God does not only show us the problem, He shows us the solution as well. There are some acts we much never be found with in other to have a triumphant victory in our journey of life.
Nothing will happen to a situation or desire that you do nothing about. Just like Newton laws of motion which state that an object will continue to remain at rest until an external force is applied. The object is liken to our desire while the external force is liken to our action taken.
Yea, a man may say, Thou hast faith, and I have works: shew me thy faith without thy works, and I will shew thee my faith by my works. James 2:18 KJV
Those who do nothing to accomplish their goals groan at the end. There is no challenge-free track on earth.