Marriage is the union of a man and woman to become one for procreation and to fulfill the will of God. Marriage is to be sweet, pleasurable, fun, in fact, any good thing that you can imagine. No disadvantage in marriage because whatever the Lord made is meant to be perfect.

For I know the thoughts that I think towards you, saith the Lord, thought of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end .

(Jeremiah 29:11 KJV)