Marriage is the union of a man and woman to become one for procreation and to fulfill the will of God. Marriage is to be sweet, pleasurable, fun, in fact, any good thing that you can imagine. No disadvantage in marriage because whatever the Lord made is meant to be perfect.
For I know the thoughts that I think towards you, saith the Lord, thought of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end .
Marriage is gold and like most precious metals you must invest time and resources to secure it and fashion it into a jewel of great price. If a man is not experiencing fulfilment in marriage, it is not because God did not create it to be fulfilling but because man has left God out of marriage.
What most people think is marriage is actually the ceremony called a wedding so they take their time planning for a wedding instead of their marriage. Wedding is just a party where the public gathers to witness the two individuals that are going into marriage together. Marriage comes after the party is over.
One of the complex institutions in life is a relationship. So many relationships have failed not because it lacks love but compatibility and adequate knowledge was never considered at the beginning.
There are some things to tolerate but some acts must never be tolerated in a relationship. You can tolerate marrying a lady that snores while sleeping when love is the foundation but you must never tolerate a man who feels it’s normal to beat his partner else they will use her as a case study after she is beaten to death by the same man when they get married.
There are some things we must do and put into an act for us to have a successful relationship. Kindly follow me through this journey of illumination as the factors are listed
It is not everything that yields to prayer. Some things don’t yield to prayer; they yield to repentance. In the same vain, the only prayer a sinner can pray to God is a prayer of repentance.
Sex goes beyond the physical activities; it is also emotional and basically spiritual in nature. Man has no problem with God until he disobeys His commandment. Adam and Eve were living under Gods presence without any conflict but the day they disobeyed God instruction, they saw the red eye of God.
True love is neither physical nor romantic, it is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be. Therefore, when the love is not mutual, there must be a force behind it in which I call the force of partial commitment called cheating.
Though this law could be applicable to both parties but i will like to say it’s easier for a lady to be totally committed with her partner than a man. It is said the population of female gender is more than that of the male.
When you are in love with someone, you don’t see obstacle all you see is possibility and love. Until you accept defeat, you can never be defeated. So many people are defeated even before they are defeated.
Love is unconditional; it is not dependent on something but itself. Once you love because of something, then that is not love because when that thing is no longer there that marks the end of the love.
It is studied that most separation or divorce does not have the foundation of true love as the basic requirement for long lasting relationship. Most, relationship are more like a contract.
When the desire for entering into the relationship is achieved, then the engineering of a separation from the satisfied partner begins. There are few and basic red flags we must put into consideration before we enter into a relationship or before we say YES! The following must be considered;