Discussing your problem in an attempt to search for solutions is not complaining but talking about pain and discomfort will only bring you more of the same and encourage those around you to look for exits. “Self-pity is an acid which eats holes in happiness”- Earl Nightingale.
It simply makes no sense to get upset about things over which you have no control and which have no significant impact on your life. For example, you hear the horn of a car passing by and you start complaining about the loudness of the car. How did that affect your life? Or is there anything you can do to stop the loudness of the car horn?
Your success starts with you and it grows to a higher level as a result of your associations and relationships. Zig Ziglar said and I quote “You can get everything in life you want if you will just help enough other people get what they want”.
When you develop the habit of thinking about others instead of you all the time, you will automatically attract others to you in return. Self-centred people are never satisfied but you get satisfied when you help others achieve their goal.
“God Is More Concern About Our Character Than He Is With Our Comfort. His Plan Is To Perfect Us Not To Pamper Us Because It Is Not Great Men Who Change The World, But Weak Men In The Hand Of A Great God“
Character is the inner or moral qualities that form the pattern of an individual behavior. It is the sum total of a person or lifestyle. A man or woman beauty and attraction in life is a function of his or her character.
Charisma is common but Character is scarce. Therefore, if you don’t want to lose color in life, you must add good character to your destiny. Character can be good or bad. The things that form our character are as follows:
This is the most relevant part of a character. Your behavior is patterned after your thought. Therefore always guide your thought. When your thinking is positive, your character becomes productive and adds values to other people around you but a negative mind set leads to breakdown of the soul