There is no way you are going to escape trials or difficulties in life, no matter how you try to pray more. It is written MANY (not few) are the afflictions of THE RIGHTEOUS (not sinners), but the Good News is; the Lord will Deliver us out of Them ALL (Psalm 34:19).
The secret of surviving Tough times is your response to them! The problem is not the problem; the problem is your reaction to the problem. You can either allow it to become a problem indeed or it becomes an opportunity when you see it as a Challenge.
Any decision taken out of anger can never be right. Why, because you only see through a side of the coin, you never consider the other part.
A mother at my place of work was angry at a nurse who will immunize her baby because she wasn’t given preferential treatment. Meanwhile, the nurse wasn’t aware of any patient been angry at her; she was busy on her duty immunizing the required next patient. The angry mother was incubating her anger continuously waiting for a preferential treatment but nobody was aware about that. She was foaming to an extent that she wanted to work out and deprived the baby from been immunized.
When you are in love with someone, you don’t see obstacle all you see is possibility and love. Until you accept defeat, you can never be defeated. So many people are defeated even before they are defeated.
Love is unconditional; it is not dependent on something but itself. Once you love because of something, then that is not love because when that thing is no longer there that marks the end of the love.
Worship is the act of talking to God directly. You bring down God presence to your habitation. When God is present in a place your spirit will feel the impact, it will connect with your soul and your body cannot deny the instant manifestation.
Worship is an act not a wish. You cannot pretend worshiping God. It is a vibes from the heart. That is why the act of worship provokes God direct intervention in any matter. It is a moving sound of divine intervention.
Success is not a possession. The misunderstanding of success is you trying to be somebody else. Happiness does not amount to success. Success don’t just happen, it is made to happen.
What then is success? It is having a favorable outcome, to have things done out of plan. It is to have a continuous achievement of set goals. Success and failure is achieved daily. When your set goal for a day is met then you succeeded for that day but if not completed then you failed for that day.
There is certain habit that makes a devil out a man. These could be enjoyed for a while but the end result is great destruction. When you engage in these habits listed below then you are on your highway to total destruction.
This is insincerity, falsehood and deceitfulness of the heart. An important aspect of it is lying. Lying destroys people trust in you and damages your personality.
Hope is the expectation of something. Faith is believing that the expectation will come to reality. Faith and hope must be in place for your desire to be accomplished. Your hope without faith equals nothing.
Faith is a driving force that keeps your hope in place. Anytime we pray for a particular situation believing, our next step is expecting the reality of the answer to such prayer. Never doubt the reality of the answer to your prayer, doubt is the killer of faith.
Character is the inner or moral qualities that form the pattern of an individual behavior. It is the sum total of a person or lifestyle. A man or woman beauty and attraction in life is a function of his or her character.
Charisma is common but Character is scarce. Therefore, if you don’t want to lose color in life, you must add good character to your destiny. Character can be good or bad. The things that form our character are as follows:
This is the most relevant part of a character. Your behavior is patterned after your thought. Therefore always guide your thought. When your thinking is positive, your character becomes productive and adds values to other people around you but a negative mind set leads to breakdown of the soul
It is studied that most separation or divorce does not have the foundation of true love as the basic requirement for long lasting relationship. Most, relationship are more like a contract.
When the desire for entering into the relationship is achieved, then the engineering of a separation from the satisfied partner begins. There are few and basic red flags we must put into consideration before we enter into a relationship or before we say YES! The following must be considered;